Sunday 7 October 2012

NTUC has a drama queen Amy Cheong



Our diva Amy Cheong who is an Assistant Director at NTUC Partnership and Alliance, and a person who manages a group of people under her, and has to deal with deadlines and projects, simply cannot put up with Malay weddings on weekends? Oh, c’mon…

Dear Amy Cheong, I really hate to say this but really you are not smart. If you are smart, you wouldn’t have posted that ill-fated, silly Facebook posting. It is really sad to see reputable NTUC thinks so highly of an immature staff like Amy Cheong and give her a comfortable seat in office. Imagine what kind of skewed values Amy imparts to her fellow subordinates and colleagues. Are these the kind of people that NTUC wants to breed in future? Amy was unable to exercise tact, control and rationale when making her judgments. As a staff of NTUC, she brings a bad reputation to the brand name.

Dear Amy I would like to think you read newspapers but obviously you didn’t keep up with current affairs despite being a manager. FYI, most Malays are middle-incomers. Malays cannot afford expensive weddings without risking financial burden. Malays want to get married and invite as many people as possible to share the joy of the occasion. Void decks are accessible for the hosts to ferry goods from their homes to the reception area. Void decks are also convenient for those who are driving because they don’t have to pay for parking on Sundays. Even if you have to pay, there are ample parking lots for the guests. Also void decks are cost friendly with good space to feed the guests who can stream in at any time they fancy within the stipulated reception period.

If Amy is complaining about the noise level between 11am to 5pm on Saturdays and Sundays, we also have to deal with Chinese one-month long paper burning which affected our clean laundry and also cause environmental pollution. We also have to put up with mahjong sessions that can go on up to 12 hours long and into wee hours in the morning. It’s a fair game, vice-versa. Malays put up with mahjong and 7th month just like the Chinese put up with our Malay weddings. Give and take; tolerance and acceptance. Is that difficult?

For the majority of Singaporeans, we have grown accustomed to the religious/cultural traditions that uniquely represent each race. Living in harmony and respecting each other’s customs and traditions is important so that we avoid engaging in silly racial/religious slamming just like what we are doing now on diva Amy and many others who have made it o the list of cyber motor-mouths.

It’s high time that Singaporeans do some reflection and think about why we are so edgy and easily tick off at the smallest issue. Our increasing intolerance towards each other disintegrated our long-standing peaceful relations that our fathers have developed and preserved all these years. We should revive the old spirits of cordial ties with neighbours and fellow Singaporeans. 

9 comments:

  1. Yes. You are so right. I always like the homely feel of Malay Weddings than the highly commercialised& expensive(for the sake of face) hotel wedding. She has really killed her own career.... She must do self reflection & grow up!

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  2. Great facts ! Very respectable..

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  3. What about the Chinese Funeral that also takes place at the void decks that lasts for about a week.

    Did she think of that as well? This is no drama queen, this is a selfish person who thinks only of herself. If she's so much better than others, then why does she live in a HDB flat.

    She's so ignorant that it's not funny.

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  4. Actually I always thought that Malay weddings symbolize the true community, or kampung, spirit of the occassion. This is a joyous occassion where friends and families get together to celebrate the union of man & woman. There is no "best" way to celebrate a wedding and different culture have different ways, but all cultures have one thing in common - it is a joyous occassion to be celebrated with loved ones. Don't let someone like this lady spoil it for anyone.

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  5. Imagine people who such attitude are working at influential and senior positions at NTUC. If not for this gaffe, she would still be flying high.

    I wonder how many of these "privilege and protected" people are there in the upper echelons of our country. Hope we will be a nation where leaders are chosen because of their values rather than capability or pedigree/paper qualification.

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  6. i also think that Amy is not very smart lor. To actually believe that FB is a private place to post random rants and whines. It is not lor, and I hope everybody can see that clearly by now.

    To "contain the matter", I think prolly the best way is to simply "tsk" her VERBALLY and remember deep deep in us tat we must not be like her, AND THEN.. stop talking abt it online. Trending this topic will cause much unhappiness as we go on and on about, eh, i tolerate u doing this and this, and the other guy goes, i also tolerate you this and this hor.. You know what I mean?

    Btw me is a Chinese, I have a good number of Malay friends and I LOVE MALAY WEDDINGS! The food (OMG!!), decor (particularly recent years),ambience,hospitality, live singing, bride's make up and accessories.. LIKE LIKE LIKE!

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  7. Let's treasure the racial harmony we enjoy in Singapore.

    Alex Lew

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  8. That such people exist in our society, or society today in the 21st century is mind boggling. Assistant director? An absolute disgrace, she doesn't deserve her citizenship at all.

    We shouldn't hush this thing up, things like that will be the end of the nation and human civilisation, no kidding here. And she had the nerve to post later that she learnt that "one generic post could result in many hurtful posts from strangers."

    I am really grateful that nowadays most people of the younger generation don't have a problem with people of a different race, and can respect each other. We got sedition act right? Time to use that draconian law for good.

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  9. She's gone liao: http://news.asiaone.com/News/Latest%2BNews/Singapore/Story/A1Story20121008-376209.html

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